And it might seem redundant to the apparently billions of bottoms out there, but there are some of us who still have hang ups about getting our pooters poked. The main objection to having a big cock up your ass is that it hurts. True. This is because your ass is designed to be clamped up tight, unless something is just passing through. This is obviously what happens when you take a shit. Your sphincter muscle pushes it out. You can control it. But what about if you’re trying to get something in? Your sphincter muscle reflexively tries to prevent it. This is really just a question of mind over matter. Like any muscle, your sphincter can’t stay contracted forever. At some point it will get tired and give up. This usually happens in about 30 seconds. So, if you can just clamp down on something... a pillow, a nipple, a ball gag... and let that lubed up, condom-covered cock sit in your ass for half-a-minute, you’ll be home free.
breathe. Once your ass gets used to having a cock in it you will be
able to enjoy fucking like rabbits. Sure you can just lay there and
let him do all the work. But most tops prefer a more aggressive bottom.
If it continues to hurt you might need to switch positions. It could
be that his cock is going in at a weird angle. If it really continues
to hurt, you should probably stop. Something could be wrong. If not,
just undulate your hips and enjoy the ride!
"Dr. Anal", or how to stop worrying and learn to love your butt
For many gay and bi men anal sex can be both a pleasure and a pain. Since bio boys don't have a vagina (some trans men may), buttfucking becomes our equivalent of "straight" intercourse. It is assumed that all gay men, therefore, engage in anal sex. Of course this isn't always the case, but more often than not the expectation is there. Because our society is rife with negative attitudes towards sex in general, and gay and/or anal sex in particular, it is understandable that many people have developed feelings of disgust and revulsion when it comes to the anus, including their own and others. This is unfortunate, as the anus can be a source of great pleasure and sensual enjoyment. After all, it's a party of your body just like any other, so why not learn to derive pleasure from it?
At a young age we begin to regard our butts as simply a gross place that farts and poop come out of. These normal bodily functions are generally regarded as shameful and inappropriate. It's important to remember that this is a learned behavior. The reality is that there are more nerve endings going to our anus than any other body part, making it the most sensitive area on our whole body. That's gotta be a good thing, right?
Thankfully, there is a wonderful book out there that can help us all get over our hang-ups regarding our assholes, called Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin, MD ("Dr. Anal"). This book is for everyone, regardless of sex or sexual orientation, whether you've had any experience with anal sex or not. Is anal play something you've always fantasized about but have never been able to do? Is it something that you hate or have only had negative experiences with? Something that you'd like to learn more about or get better at? Well, this book is for you...
It may seem like a lot to take, but there are those enterprising power bottoms out there who can take a double dickin’ and keep on tickin’. Whether it’s two dildos, a cock/dildo combo, or two hot tops pounding away at the same hot hole, this is the kind of situation where two’s company and three definitely is not a crowd. But remember to be nice to your bottom - use lots of lube! And this puts a bit of a spin on being safe: just like you shouldn’t wear two condoms at the same time (it may seem like you’re being extra safe, but actually the friction from two condoms rubbing together can cause them to break) having two condom-covered cocks rubbing against each other while they fuck the same ass can cause the latex and/or polyurethane to degrade in quality. Thankfully, there is a way around this little technicality -- use only one condom: the Reality condom, which can be used effectively for anal sex. The bottom dude can slide one in and his two tops will be safely inside the barrier, dicks rubbing together, so everyone can fuck away without having to worry about breakage. And again, use lots of lube!!!
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